Six Tips for Pursuing Your DBA with a Family

Mantissa College-JulianHaytham
Six Tips for Pursuing Your DBA with a Family

Pursuing a doctorate is rigorous work. However, just because you’re doing a DBA doesn’t mean it has to take over your personal life. In fact, plenty of DBA students manage other commitments as well, including raising families.

Wondering whether you’ve got what it takes to take on a DBA when you’ve got kids (or to take on kids when you’re working toward your DBA)? The right strategies go a long way. Read on for a roundup of six tips aimed at helping you balance your academic goals with your personal ones.

1. Make sure your partner is on board with your DBA.

A strong support network makes all the difference when you’re working toward your DBA. Why? Because if your partner isn’t prepared to back you up, that lack of support may turn into an insurmountable roadblock. Plus, having your own personal cheerleader at home can be a huge advantage.

Writes Amanda Murdie for the academic website Duck of Minerva of her own experiences as a DBA candidate, wife and mom, “The only thing I really have going in my life is a very supportive partner: my husband put his career on hold for me to pursue my DBA.  He found a job that was on the nights and/or weekends."

At times, a DBA can be all-encompassing; this means it can’t just be your dream, but your partner’s dream, as well.

2. Make sure your DBA program is on board with your family.

Of course, no DBA program can forbid you from having a personal life, but the reality is that some fields of studies, DBA programs, and even countries are more “family-friendly” than others. For example, in the UK, international students must study full-time. This may put them at a disadvantage compared to domestic students for whom part-time studies are an option. Conversely, in countries like Norway, DBA programs have the same progressive maternity/paternity policies as 

Tips for finding a family-friendly DBA program? Look into whether the university has infrastructure in place for DBAs with families, such as family-friendly accommodations and support groups for students with families.

3. Be aware of your options.

As a DBA student, you know how to do research. Apply the same doggedness to your search for family-friendly resources as you do to your academic research. If you have young children but don’t have a partner who can stay home with them, what are your options? From in-home options like babysitters and nannies to out-of-home options like daycare centers, there are several different possibilities. Determining what will best suit your family across everything from budget to personalities can give you invaluable peace of mind.

4. Don’t be afraid to delegate and/or outsource, if necessary.

DBAs and parenting have at least one thing in common: Neither is conducive to passivity, and together they’re even less so.  

Suggests Tanya Golash, who had twins followed by a third child while completing her DBA, “Delegating tasks can make life as an academic parent much, much easier. Instead of spending hours verifying your bibliography, are you willing to pay a student to do it? If you really need Saturday mornings to catch up on reading, will you be willing to hire a sitter? Instead of poring over Strunk & White yourself, are you willing to hire a professional editor to get your manuscripts ready for submission?”

Additionally, domestic tasks like grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning and laundry can also be outsourced, if your budget allows.

5. Accept imperfection.

DBAs may be inclined toward perfectionism, but you won’t be doing yourself any favors if you hold yourself to an impossible standard while juggling your DBA and your family.

Says Carolyn of The Healthy Doctor, “First of all you must accept that “good enough” will be your mantra for the DBA and at home. “It’s a DBA not a Nobel Prize” as the saying goes; a completed journal paper or thesis that is “good enough” is better than aiming for a flawless thesis that never gets finished. Ditto for the home – ditch Pinterest or anything that makes you feel like you should be baking organic muffins for your little one, while lovingly creating exquisite art and craft activities within your sparkling home with its perfectly organized kitchen cabinets (ahem). You are not that parent. You cannot afford to be, time-wise. There are more important things to do with your time including self-care and bonding with your children. Also, nobody can be that perfect parent – it’s a myth. The same can be applied with relish to almost everything in your life….It is entirely possible to have things in relative order at home and with the DBA, and you will have moments of perfection, but they will not last.”

6. Make exercise a family endeavor.

Exercise offers a huge number of benefits for DBA students, including stress management, weight control, brain health and happiness levels. But nothing says you have to reap all these benefits alone. Instead, consider turning exercise time into family time.

Depending on the ages and inclinations of your kids, this may mean anything from pushing the stroller on a brisk walk to a game of pickup basketball. In addition to helping to ensure that you get your workout it, involving your children in exercising leads by example.

One last thing to keep in mind? While it’s easy to think of parenting while working on a DBA as an obstacle to overcome, having kids may ultimately be an advantage.  Contends Bushra Jamil, a DBA student with three young kids, “Believe me, kids are not a liability; they have turned out to be my asset, rocking my DBA assignments with them. As a DBA program can be long and very tedious at times, so children are like Zephyr in this journey, their smiles and hugs like a panacea. At the end of the day, they act as an anodyne.”

At Mantissa College, we deliver the Doctor of Business Administration programme (DBA) in collaboration with the L’Institut pour I’Expertise (IPE) Management School Paris, France. The study duration for this programme takes around three (3) to five (5) years to complete with 100% assignment, no examination.

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